Entry: Guys On The Net Aug 11, 2003



Ok Well, I'm not sure if this is a good or bad thing. But it seems to me guys like me better when I talk to them on the internet...I can't get guys to talk to me in RL at all, I can't figure out why that is. Maybe I'm just guy challenged? lol. As stupid as that sounds...
I've also had about 4 guys say they're "interested" in me, one of which I've admitted to being interested in them(they know who they are). And are internet relationships really as bad as people make them out to be? I mean, once you get past the whole "maybe they're really who they're saying they are" deal, could it be a rather good relationship (assuming the person doesn't cheat - if thats what you'd even call it). Because, doesn't an internet relationship allow you both to kinda get to know each other better with out all the sexual and physical aspects involved? Eh...don't mind me...just rambling.

«Kaitlynn»
   2 comments

Tina
August 11, 2003   11:35 PM PDT
 
i guess it can go either way. it can be extremely good...but only while it's kept as an online thing. i mean 99.9% of the people out there are totally different online than they are in person. i, for one, think i'm pretty much the same...but i'm sure people who know me in person and thru IM must think different. i guess it's more like u're intrigued by this person who "could be" on the other side of the monitor. this person who's on the monitor doesn't always exist in real life. this personality only comes out on a screen.

it could also be bad...which i'm sure u've heard all the negatives. person isn't who he/she claims to be. person is cheating...bc there's no "real relationship" for them to commit to. person lies about any and everything. etc...i won't go on with my list. but i must agree...less rules to follow when there's less at stake (i.e. if u lose the person on the other side of the monitor...go find another one with the click of a mouse).
spiraldown
August 11, 2003   11:25 PM PDT
 
internet relationships are horrible, because most of the time the person online is completely different in person. Without human contact (i.e. online), a person believes that there are less rules and no consequences therefore they follow less rules. All in all, it's all up to you anyways.

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